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 The Best BDSM  Humiliation Ideas reviewed For submissive males, nothing beats serving, suffering, and being controlled by a sadistic Mistress, a cruel Dominatrix or a mean bitch.

The desire and longing to be humiliated and dominated is strong and consumes almost every waking moment. It takes over their life, and they need to have a Domme control them.

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There are many different areas in female domination, as well as a never-ending amount of activities and scenarios that are possible that can be a minefield.

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That’s why we have compiled a mega list of 200 erotic humiliation ideas that you can try, or adapt to suit your own limits, tastes, and circumstances. We also have other lists which are more specific to every area of BDSM Humiliation. With Pictures, videos and audio clips and new ones are added every week so keep checking back. More adult phone lines here

 

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 Femdom Humiliation Ideas 

1- Sit down to pee – Instead of standing up to piss as a real man would.

2– Must get permission to speak – You need to remain silent until she says you are allowed to talk

3– Made to wear a ball gag – Even more humiliating when it’s been in so long you start to drool but amusing for her right from the start when you try to speak

4– Made to wear a humblr – Hobbling around with your balls pulled tightly behind you. You can bet she will require you to have to stand up straight as well

5– Sploshing – Cream cakes, custard, baked beans, jello, cream, milk, eggs, honey, ketchup, mustard, in fact, any food that will leave you looking like a complete mess

6– Face slapping – Made to stand or kneel as she lines up blow after blow and laughs as you flinch or when she does make contact and sends you flying

7– Spat on – Nothing is more degrading than having your body and face dripping in her spit

 

8– Name-calling – Wimp, loser, faggot, cumstain, wanker, shitstick, dickless, microdick, cum guzzler, spot, spud or retard to name a few.

9– Small penis humiliation –  Cock mock your little pecker to cement your psyche to the fact you aren’t a real man and that women don’t want you. They want real men with proper size dicks and they will ruthlessly rip your manhood to shreds

10– Body writing- Humiliating slogans will be written on your body. Cumrag, whore, slut, cum drinker, useless, faggot, sissy crossdresser, or anything degrading or humiliating

11– Cum play and Cum eating – Mix it up to make them wank into a yoghurt pot then lick it up or wank into their dinner and eat it – You can add all sorts of twists to this one

12– Make them wank with difficult objects& Ideas – Have fun with this one make them use items like jaggy nettles, false nails, boxing gloves, porn they ain’t interested in ie if they are a straight guy make them watch gay porn and wank to it.

13– Wear makeup-  For a hetero male who doesn’t crossdress, wearing female makeup is deeply humiliating

14– Forced feminization – As above, being forced to dress as a woman with stockings, knickers, high heels, bra, fake tits, makeup, wig, maybe even a sissy hat

15– Ruined orgasm – Teased and tormented for hours or just unlocked from chastity after an extended lock-up, you will look ridiculous as you are made to stop just as you start to cum and your orgasm slips away while she laughs at your despair

16– Wear a butt plug – These are extremely uncomfortable to wear after a short period of time and even more so if she makes you sit on a wooden bench or stool with it in. Or makes you wear one with a pigs tail

17 – Put into cuffs – Nothing better than to restrain him and make him helpless

18 – Collared – The ultimate in submission but make him wear it when out and about maybe a cute little pink one? Or one with “slave”, “bitch” or “loser” embroidered on it?

19 – Not allowed to stand up – You must kneel on your knees or all fours

20 – Not permitted to walk – they must crawl everywhere even outside behind you.  You must crawl around the floor at all times on your hands and knees

21– Perform all tasks with Boxing gloves On -This can be a lot of fun watching you complete all sorts of tasks wearing big bulky gloves, make them wank, wash dishes, hoover, Iron etc 

22– Not allowed to speak – If they speak they get punished. Can only communicate through grunts or she may give you a dog squeaky toy to squeak once for yes and twice for no

23– Eat meals from the floor- Tipped on there by her or from a bowl, you need to eat from the floor like a dog

24 –Wear a Tshirt that says I swallow cum – Yes we can have these made in any online T-shirt shop – You can have anything written on these Tshirts – Make them wear it in public and send a picture or video proof

25 – Tie a pink bow around your cock and balls  – Pretty in Pink 

26 – Naked except for female knickers – Parade around wearing panties and a tampon up their ass

27 – Wear a bell -It will ring every time you move to remind you that you are owned and that you are hers

28– Puppy play – Crawl on the floor and have a squeaky toy to communicate, beg for a biscuit, drink and eat from a dog bowl and speak to them like a little puppy. Collar and lead are a must for this one and walk them around

29– Adult baby – Make them wear a diaper, drink from a bottle, wet their nappy and sit in it, dress up in adult baby clothes and  humiliate them about  being a naughty boy

30– Trampling – Stand all over them with dirty feet, the dirtier the better

31– Make them count objects – Get a box of cornflakes and make them count them, or a bag of rice, or a tin of beans, but make sure you have poured a tin of syrup all over them first.

Give them a time limit if they don’t make it in time give them even more humiliating tasks of pouring the sticky cornflakes down their panties and then heading out shopping.

Public Humiliation

32– Kiss her feet- She clicks her fingers in the supermarket or at the store and you must drop to your knees and kiss her feet

33– Kiss her ass -As above but with the added degradation of having to kiss her arse instead while everyone looks at you

34– Kneel on all fours as a seat -When no seats are available, you must get on all fours and she will use you to sit on instead, regardless of where you are

35– Worship the ground she walks on As in literally. Crawl around behind her and kiss the ground where she has walked

36– Wear a hairband on your head that says I love cock anytime anyplace anywhere

37– Walk 3 paces behind – Always stay behind and wear a sign that says the person in front owns me. Lesser beings walk behind their superiors but you must scurry forward and open all doors for her

38– She orders for you in a restaurant – Even worse for you when the waitress is really young and cute and looks at you before Mistress says “Oh don’t ask him, I’ll tell you what he wants”

39– Tells a random shop assistant about your little penis – Tell them you are a cuckold and have a useless little penis that everyone laughs at

40– Make you go to a store and buy a cucumber, lube, and condoms – Must bring back the receipt

41– Ask a chemist if they have any extra small condoms – Make sure  the place is busy, And make sure they know they are for you

42– Be handcuffed to a shopping cart- Either discreetly or in full view. She can al-o require you to reach for all items which will be awkward for you to say the least

43– Wear a thong under your clothes She will of course then request you to reach up. A lot she will also want you to have a butt plug up your ass

44– Tight shorts while locked in chastity – The tightest she can find to make your cage prominent and so obvious you are locked up

45– Go shopping for makeup – Make sure to ask the assistant for help with colours and that it is for you

46– Make you wet yourself in public -You will have been wearing light clothing so that it is very obvious that you have had an accident. Best done when you are walking back to the car or almost home. Go to a discreet place and she will make you wet yourself then walk the rest of the way home or to the car in piss-soaked clothes.

47– Spanked in public – After Mistress has  raised her voice to you in public she then  puts you over the knee and spanks you 

48– Loud scolding – A really loud scolding, finger-pointing and right in your face to make you squirm as everyone looks on. For added effect she can yell at you to not move then she will storm off and leave you standing there with a red face

49– Wear a collar in public – Either under a polo neck sweater or in full view as you wear a t-shirt

50– Wear a thong and have to reach up for stuff in a store – The trousers you wear will be tight and the thong extra large and you will make sure it shows at the top of your trousers

51– Wear a bra under your shirt – No one will know but you will, which makes it so awkward and squirmy for you, however, You may be told to wear a bright bra underneath or buy false breasts  to wear

52– Tell your friends at a dinner party about his weird kinks

53– Tell HIS friends! – The ultimate embarrassment, Imagine his friends seeing all the humiliating pictures and videos you have taken of him

54– Taken for a manicure – Make sure he picks all the pretty pinks for his nails and tells the girl how much he loves having his nails done

55– Go into a shop dressed as a sissy – Imagine the looks he will get as he walks in dressed as a sissy girl? Make him go over to the assistant and ask if she thinks he’s pretty.

56– Walk home while dressed in feminine clothing – Make sure he gets some wolf whistles if he does not then send him back out again, make him bend down to pick things up so folk see up his skirt.

57– Carry her handbag – Always ensure he carries your handbag and stops every so often to take out the little makeup mirror and apply his lip gloss all in public places,

58– Serve her friends – Ensure he does this naked while your friends all laugh, point, giggle and take pictures

59– Called a woman’s name in public – Very embarrassing when you shout out a female’s name but you have to make sure he replies to it and  it must be in a very busy public place

60– Wear a butt plug

61– Be given a butt plug to put in while out – You must go to the restroom and put it in when she hands it to you. Walking back, you will be convinced everyone knows. Even better if you have a hard seat to sit on

62– Wear an obviously feminine blouse – Make sure the buttons are undone a little and that he has a bra on underneath than shines through

63– Wear women’s flat heel shoes to work – 

64– red bra under a white shirt – Even worse if she demands you remove your jacket or coat so everyone can see

65– Collar in public

66– Collar with a bell on it

67– She acts haughtily with you in front of strangers – Aloof and cold. Walks off and makes you pay for stuff, drops things and has you pick them up and tuts and rolls her eyes when you speak in front of people

68– Make you get an erection while wearing loose-fitting trousers- Be very careful with this one for obvious reasons but in the right place, making you walk around with a stiffy will be cringe-worthy for you

69– Make you jerk off to get pre-cum stains on your trousers – Be even more careful with this one! She makes you shoot your load in your pants and leave a big wet patch. Even better with white trousers

Cuckold Humiliation

70– Tied to a chair and made to watch -You worship her but she ties you up and makes you watch her with another man

71– Ordered to find her a bull – You must go and find other men for your dream woman to fuck

72– You are the fluffer -She makes you get her lover hard and his cock lubricated and ready to fuck

73– He cums on your face – He screws her then just as he is about to cum he aims at you while you kneel beside them and cums all over your face

74– She calls you names while being fucked

75– Ignored while she is having sex

76- Blatantly talks to her lover on the phone while you are massaging her feet

77– Flirts with other men right in front of you – Everyone in the bar knows you came as a couple but she openly flirts with other men

78– Kiss her feet while he screws her

79– Stand in the corner and watch – Make him sniff her panties and lick his boxers

80– Hold his cock as she gets on her knees – No straight man wants to hold another man’s cock, least of all an erect one vastly superior to their own that’s about to be sucked by the woman of their dreams

81– Guide his dick into her pussy – Whilst doing this he must tell the ALpha male how he could only dream of being a real man like him

82– Hold her cunt lips open for him

83– Stood on as she gets taken doggy style -Lying on the floor like a doormat while she stands on your chest and bends over so her real man lover can take her from behind

84– Creampie eating – After he has spunked his load inside her, its time for you to go down on her and eat his load from her pussy

85– She squats over you after he has cum inside her – Or she makes you lie on your back and another man’s cumload drips from her pussy into your mouth

86– Beg her bull to fuck her -You want her so badly it hurts but instead you will have to beg another man to have sex with her

87– She leans on you as she gets fucked – 

88– Eye contact while he takes her

89– Tied to a chair in another room and made to listen – Can you imagine him having to listen to your moans and enjoyment with another man and he can’t get close to you.

90– Kneel outside the bedroom door

91– Bring them drinks in bed after they have had sex – He has just satisfied you Mistress/Wife/Girlfriend and as they lie in bed cuddling and kissing, you must serve them their drinks and snacks

92– Bull wears your chastity key -Being locked in chastity is bad enough without another man wearing your key around his neck

93– She kisses you right after his cock has been in her mouth

94- She kisses you after he has cum in her mouth

95– Real man pulls out and cums on your face

96– Lick his real man load off her tits

97– You are his personal maid for the evening – Serving her is an honour, but serving another man? Not only that but the man who is screwing your Mistress or wife?

98– Pay for the lingerie the bull will enjoy

99– Pay for their romantic evening

100– Drive her to their dates – Her sleeping with other men because you can’t satisfy her is bad enough but having to take her to meet them is even worse

101– Sleep in the wet patch

102– Dry them both after they have showered

103– Tells you all the things she does with him

104– Makes you listen to all her sex stories

105– Does things with him she never does with you -Whatever sex acts you want so badly but she never does for you (anal, blowjobs, tit wanks etc) she will make damn sure you know she is doing them with him.

106– You serve them both

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Chastity Humiliation

107- Make you watch porn – And laugh as you squirm with discomfort as your little dick tries to get hard

108– Wear the key around her neck for all to see -Even better when people ask what its for and she tells them.

109– Sit on your face

110– Tap the key against your cage

111– Put hot sauce or stinging nettles in the cage

112– Wear a pink one -Being locked in chastity with an online keyholder is bad enough but for it to be in a sissy pink colour?

113– Metal padlock and forced to go through a metal detector

114– Tell other men you need to be fucked and explain to them why

115– Make it obvious you are wearing one

116– Tell all her friends you are locked up -Even worse if you happen to be sitting there at the time and they all look at you with open mouths

117– Have her bull cum on your keys -Then make you lick them clean

118– Have her real man wear your key around his neck

119– Be naked except for your cage

120– Force feed you a viagra

121 Give you your key in public and tell you to unlock yourself -But not be allowed to go to the restroom. You need to do it right there under the table or behind the pillar. (Be careful with this one that you don’t do it anywhere someone will actually see)

122– You wear a strap-on while she fucks “you”

123– Her bull cums on your cock cage

124– She makes you stand locked up while her lover has an erection -You aren’t allowed erections since she cruelly took yours away so it will be embarrassing to have another man one inch away from you

125– Compares your cock size with her real mans

126– Make you beg to orgasm

127– Keeps you locked away for weeks then wears skimpy clothing

128– Rub your balls

129– Make you cum while still locked up -Using a vibrator on your cock cage or milking your prostate will make you shoot your load without the joy of an orgasm

130– Make you exercise -Having that padlock rattle against your cage as you do jumping jacks or squat thrusts will be a reminder of how lowly you are ( continued further down)

131– Laugh at you as you try to get hard

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Femdom, or female domination, is a BDSM dynamic in which the dominant partner is female and the submissive partner is typically male. It can also involve non-binary or gender non-conforming individuals as submissives.

Here are some ideas for tasks and situations that might be involved in a femdom dynamic:

Chastity training: This task involves the dominant partner requiring the submissive to wear a chastity device, such as a belt or cage, that prevents them from becoming sexually aroused or achieving orgasm. The dominant partner may decide when and how the submissive is allowed to orgasm and may use this as a form of control or punishment.

Corporal punishment: The dominant partner may use physical punishment, such as spanking, flogging, or caning, as a form of discipline or control. The severity and frequency of the punishment should be negotiated and agreed upon beforehand, and safewords should be established to ensure that the submissive can communicate their limits.

Forced feminization: This task may involve the submissive being required to dress in traditionally feminine clothing, such as dresses or skirts, and to adopt feminine mannerisms, such as speaking in a higher pitch or using makeup. This may be done for the dominant partner’s pleasure or as a form of humiliation for the submissive.

Domestic servitude: The submissive may be required to perform household tasks, such as cleaning, cooking, or laundry, for the dominant partner. This task may involve the submissive serving the dominant partner in a subservient role, such as serving drinks or food on their knees.

Foot and shoe worship: The submissive may be required to attend to the dominant partner’s feet and shoes, including cleaning and massaging them. The submissive may also be required to kiss or lick the dominant partner’s feet or shoes as a sign of their devotion.

Here are some more detailed explanations of the tasks you requested:

  1. JOI (Jerk Off Instruction): This is when the dominant partner gives verbal instructions to the submissive on how to masturbate, often with the goal of bringing the submissive to orgasm. The dominant partner may give specific instructions on technique, intensity, and duration, and may also use verbal humiliation or degrading language during the instruction.

  2. CEI (Cum Eating Instruction): This involves the dominant partner instructing the submissive to consume their own ejaculate or the ejaculate of another person, either through oral sex or by directly consuming it. The dominant partner may give specific instructions on when and how to do this and may use verbal humiliation or degrading language during the instruction.

  3. Edging: This will be when the dominatrix partner brings the submissive close to orgasm and then stops just before they climax, in order to prolong the experience and increase arousal. This can be repeated multiple times before allowing the submissive to orgasm.

  4. Gooning: This term refers to the act of making a submissive look foolish or ridiculous, often through the use of mocking language or humorous costumes or props.

  5. Cuckolding: This involves the submissive watching or being aware of the dominant partner having sexual relations with someone else, often as a form of humiliation or as a way to enforce monogamy or commitment.

  6. Strap-on play: This involves the use of a strap-on dildo, with the dominant partner penetrating the submissive either vaginally or anally.

  7. Anal play: This can involve any type of sexual activity involving the anus, such as rimming, fingering, or penetration with a toy or penis.

It’s important to note that these activities should only be engaged in consensually and with the establishment of clear boundaries and limits. It is never acceptable to engage in non-consensual or abusive behaviour.

 
 

Small Penis Humiliation

132- Admire real-size cocks

133– Measure it

134– Compare it against small objects -Chipolata sausages, baby carrots, aaa batteries, biro lids

135– She tells all her friends about how small you are -Even worse if you don’t know which ones and you will always wonder if she knows

136– Wiggles her little finger at you

137– Smirks/scoffs/giggles every time she sees it

138– Makes you shave off all your pubic hair

139– Makes you grow all your pubic hair -SO that it is completely hidden and looks like you don’t even HAVE a penis

140– Put you in chastity – Draw up a chastity slave contract where you agree he stays in chastity with no more wanking, orgasms etc –

This is where the real fun starts as he can no longer wank but you can tease him, make him watch his favourite porn, make him keep a chastity diary or write about his deepest fantasies, all to get him nice and hard which hurts when in a chastity device

141– Call you names and insult you

142– Make you listen to what she does with real men -You are far too small to please her and you want her so badly it hurts so she will torment you by telling you what she does with real men

143– Force you to tell her about all your failed sex attempts

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Masturbation Humiliation

144– Nipple clamps that get tighter every 30 seconds

145– Set a time limit to orgasm – There is nothing worse than needing to cum within a time limit. The pressure will put you off as she sits and laughs at you as you frantically spank your monkey while she counts down loudly

146– Kneel on raw rice or upturned bottle caps

147– Use your submissive hand – You will look ridiculous as you try

148– In a cold shower -It will be difficult to even get hard never mind achieve orgasm

149– Threatened with a bucket of cold water if you don’t cum -Standing over you as you wank, she will count down and hold the bucket to make you nervous

150– Kneel and wank right next to an electric fire -Not too close to cause actual burning but enough to make the skin hot and masturbation difficult due to the discomfort

151– Smear cock in ben gay or chilli sauce

152– Cum 2 or 3 times in a row

153– Ruined orgasm – I enjoy edging my slaves and sissies for hours keeping them on edge all day and then totally ruining that orgasm for them, Yes it is a killer for them and entertaining for us to watch.

154– Be milked

155– Hump a pillow -Lying on the floor, humping a pillow like a dog as she either laughs or just ignores you and reads her emails or text messages

156– Fuck a settee -You cock between the settee and the cushion, you will hump away and fuck that sofa good and proper

157– Fuck a blow-up doll -Even worse if it’s a blow-up doll of a male figure

158– Use her real man lovers used condom

159– Only allowed to use 2 fingers

160– Hump her leg

161– Only allowed to look at gay porn – If they are totally straight then make them watch gay  porn all day long

162– Must thank her as you are cumming -As if it’s not bad enough having had to beg for permission to orgasm, you must also thank her for allowing it while it’s happening, thus removing your ability to actually enjoy it

163– Must constantly thank her as you are wanking

164– No stimulation

165– Supervised masturbation -Having to wank at the feet of superior females as she watches you closely is deeply humiliating

166– Tell them they don’t wank properly and make them watch porn to learn – Give them instructions on how to wank as they are such losers they don’t do it properly, or call a male friend around and get them to ask him how to masturbate properly

167– Cum Play – Make them cum in their pants and wear them to work

Punishment Humiliation

168– Over the knee spanking (OTK)  -Knickers pulled down and yanked over her knee to have your arse spanked and your cheeks glowing red as you yelp and kick your feet

169– Corner time -Better after a sound spanking, you will stand in the corner facing the wall for hours

170– Lines -1000 times you must write “I am a sissy faggot cock sucker” or other degrading phrases.

171– Bootlicking – make them lick your boots  especially if they are dirty and you have used the heel to fuck their ass earlier

172– Floor cleaning -With your toothbrush or your tongue.

173– Speech removal – Not allowed to speak at all  

174– Toilet privileges were withdrawn -Not for too long obviously, just enough so that it becomes uncomfortable and the begging is desperation

175– Limited food -Again, not for extended periods of time, just enough to make you beg and whine

176– Whipped/Caned/Cropped – These are all punishments I enjoy doing with an audience and letting others participate

177– Corner time – Face the wall hands tied behind their back with a hat on saying, dunce

178– Stress position -Holding a penny with your nose against the wall for longer than 2 minutes is painful, it’s even worse with arms outstretched and holding to pennies with your fingertips. For it to be even worse, she might make you be squatting

179– Predicament bondage -Predicament bondage allows 2 different positions but each one alleviates one discomfort and gives another. For example, squat down to rest your calves but this puts pressure on your nipple clamps. Rise to alleviate this pressure and your calves take the strain again

180 – Post orgasm torture

Sissy Humiliation

181– Be pegged -Bend over and prepare to be fucked like a bitch

182– Fully dressed and serve her friends -Serving them is bad enough but doing it while dressed as a sissy maid is 100x worse. Even more so if it is some of her vanilla friends

183– Taken x number of miles away and told to walk home

184– Curtsey – They must always get this right, it’s part of sissy training and punishments will happen if they get it wrong or forget  to do it

185– Practise proper posture – Make them walk up and down with a book on their head to help with posture – Make sure you have your friends round for a glass of wine as he’s doing this.

186– Have your name changed -Something girly like Jessica, mandy or Susan. Or something worse such as cum guzzler, or slut Sandra

187– Be pimped out -Suck cock and be fucked up the ass for money. Even worse when they give the money to her and you never even see it

188– Practice cock sucking -On your knees for hours and hours sucking rubber cocks. Either a dildo or her strap on

189– Anal training -You will get bigger and bigger dildos and vibrators up your arse

190– Go shopping for female attire

191– Get your ears pierced – Take him to get his ears pierced but he must tell the person he wants pretty earrings and to ask dumb questions like “will it hurt? ” Do they know first aid? Will they get someone to hold your hand as you scared etc 

192– Chores inspection – The never-ending chores and mistakes they will make, have them do it over and over again, even if they did do it well, can you imagine having to do the exact same chore all day long with a smile 

193– Panties pulled down and made to hobble about as you walk

194– Your entire body is shaved of hair from the eyes down

195– Anal inspection

196– Made to wear lockable high heel shoes

197– Tuck your cock between your legs – You can use duct tape on this or sellotape but don’t let that little dicklet hang down anymore, threaten them with the operation to have it removed.

198– Sing and dance for her amusement – I have had plenty of sissy girls sing and dance for me to all sorts of songs as well as practice majorettes with a stick all for my entertainment

199– Sissy panties to be worn 24/7 – Alway in panties but make them keep the same ones on for weeks so they stink

200- Inspection of dressing – If they don’t dress to your standards make them start all over again, but they must be punished any time they get it wrong. 

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And there you have it. 200 ways for erotic humiliation. Have you seen anything you like? Something you want to expand on and make your own, with your own twists? Something that instantly made your cock hard and desperate to try?

We certainly hope so, because that means our job here has been a success!. If you are in a BDSM relationship, use a BDSM webcam or visit a live Dominatrix, most of what you read here can be achieved so go forth and enjoy!

No matter what type of Humiliation you are looking for you can be assured one of our online Mistresses is waiting to explore it with you, from extreme to mild, perhaps using Hypno or slave contracts, they enjoy every aspect of being entertained and thinking outside the box when it comes to thinking up new exciting entertaining scenarios for their online session with you. 

So many different ways to enjoy when exploring BDSM, both from an erotic side to a  more advanced side, introducing new techniques and methods and exploring new things together.

 

From dressing up in fetish clothing ie PVC, LEATHER, or LATEX or even wearing his favourite type of lingerie to keep him on the edge at all times. I enjoy CFNM  and never letting him see me naked but he always has to be naked. 

Using Cam To Cam In An Online Show

Using cam to cam is a great way to go as it helps for the Mistress or woman to be able to watch you carry out all of her instructions and entertains her, even more, when she can see you looking and acting so ridiculously. This is what makes the whole slave or sissy humiliated a lot of fun for us. Watching you carrying out the most hideous of tasks as we have sex with our husbands or as we paint our nails phone our friends watch tv etc.

 

Here are a few More Ideas, Methods and techniques to use to humiliate even more

Ignore him –  I enjoy this one so much, have him sit on his cam spending money on you as you totally ignore him, you can watch tv,  chat to other people, have a phone sex session with someone else, paint your nails, do your hair, makeup etc and never speak or even acknowledge him. This can also work in real-time sessions or within relationships, 

Continue yelling – Continue yelling at him and have him kneel in front of you as you verbally humiliate them, demand they slap themselves, spit on themselves and tell you what a disgusting little wanker they are. Make them admit they are gay or a faggot or that they love sucking real man cocks.

Boudoir Photo Shoot –Make him book in for a photo shoot but he must wear a bra, panties and stockings and book in as a girl’s name

Peg Him – Peg him with a strapon on  and make him shout that he is gay and loves cocks 

Big Bow in the hair –Head out for a walk or have him go out for a walk while you are camming but he must have a big  pink bow in his hair

Pictures in Vulnerable positions – Make them go into vulnerable positions so you can take pictures and videos of them. Spice it up by demanding they have signs on them with derogatory slogans, make them eat cum in these positions, wank in these positions and then show them the pictures and videos after.

Controlled toy – Make them wear a smartphone-controlled toy and then send them out to the shop and you can set it off whenever you want to remind them you are in control. you can use this on the penis or anal or even both.

Tie them to a tree – Make them tie themselves or tie them to a tree outside and leave them until you decide to bring them back in again.

Fake Tan and bikini Lines  – Demand he covers his body in fake tan and then lay outside on the sun lounger wearing a swimming costume or bikini.

Social Media – Make him write something derogatory and degrading about himself using youtube, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter

Gags – Make them wear a gag and talk non-stop makes them drool all over the place and is highly embarrassing for them

Painting – Get them to decorate their bedroom using a tiny thin tiny paintbrush but they must have a butt plug up their ass and high heel son and a specified time to complete the task or you will release a picture of them.

Doll in a pram – Put a dolly in a pram and have them take it for a walk and talk to it as if it’s a real baby.

Overweight/ Underweight – Go shopping with him and make him take a size that is way way to small for him and try it on, then come out and tell the assistant that it didn’t fit and kick up a fuss about how it should have fitted you and their sizes are wrong etc. Do the same with underweight people with huge-sized clothes

Sex – Having a recording of you having sex with someone else and making him listen to it on repeat all day long

Cheesy songs – Make him listen to the same song over and over and over again with his headphones on. I did this to one of my slaves and made him listen to “Last Christmas” By wham for 4 hours solid

Sleep deprivation – Don’t let him sleep keep a webcam on him or if at home make him stand in the corner and if he moves you hear him then you get to punish whatever way you want.

We will continue to add to this list and all of our other lists on kinky ways to have fun on the webcam or in the bedroom. Most of our lists can be done in both scenarios

What are they used for?

Slave training – Keep a slave in line and knowing that they know their place, you teach and train them to do perform certain acts, tasks and assignments for you

Punishing the slave – Correcting disobedient behaviours at all times 

Enjoyment – Yes some people really do get a lot of pleasure from  any of the acts mentioned above, what one dislikes another just loves

Satisfaction – Feeling relief at the end of any scenarios

Adrenalin rush – Not knowing what will be coming next or how far you will be pushed in the whole training sessions, being kept on the edge and testing new kinky ideas

 

About Me

 I am a dominatrix of 25 years and have had many submissives in my stables, I am also a lifestyle Domina and married to a submissive male. When we write these articles we can do it in such a way that it covers both aspects of BDSM from the top and the bottom. We will continue to add new lists, new ideas, and new methods as well as video, pictures and audio clips. 

The webcam site we have links for on this website is a site that we 100% back as a reputable honest webcam site with real Mistresses who enjoy every area of BDSM and power play.

All of our articles are unique and written from REAL EXPERIENCES and not just some hashed-up articles you can find anywhere online. We back it up with real pictures & videos of sessions. 

In conclusion 

The ideas and suggestions above should always be negotiated and or discussed with the submissive beforehand.

Always remember that to force someone to do something that is out of their hard limits and that they feel uncomfortable with then it stops becoming  BDSM.

You must also always remember that what turns someone off may turn someone else on so it’s always good to find out where a person’s hard limits and boundaries are before any play takes place. Always remember safe, sane and consensual, You can push boundaries and test hard limits but never push boundaries to the extent that the submissive is no longer comfortable and not enjoying his session anymore. 

Take time out to really understand what the sub needs and enjoys, explore this and add your own twists to it, as let’s be honest no one likes scripted sessions or sessions where they know what’s coming next. Listen to your sub or sissy and then add new ways into the scenario,  introduce new methods, have them guessing but most of all enjoy it.